If I have something to hide from my person, why would I willingly say, ‘I do, till death do us part’? When you are in a relationship, this person will mainly be whom you can share all your thoughts, ideas, situations… all your good and all your bad. This person is the person you will live with all your life. I learned from my childhood fairytales, when you try to hide something, the truth will eventually catch up to you. Open arms always.
Respect for me is nonviolence. Nonviolence through the mental and physical. If you choose this person, please be kind. Treat them as you would want them to treat you. Consider your actions and how it will affect your significant other. Respect this person in all ways possible.
Nobody is perfect. If you truly love the person by your side, it means that you will love them for all that they are. It means that when you close your eyes, you see that person exactly the same as with your eyes open. When you try to look for faults, you will find them every time. For example, “he takes care of me SO I love him.” You can love a person just for the sake of love, not because they fill a void for you.
What is true love? It is a dedication to someone and your relationship with them. It is the willingness to do things and compromise for the betterment of the relationship. It is the willingness to put the relationship above other things and remain committed to making it happier, healthier, and more fulfilling. You do this because you recognize that the relationship is already making you a happier and better person, so staying dedicated to improving it is just a no-brainer.
This doesn’t mean that there won’t be issues in the relationship. Humans have emotions, and those emotions can interfere with a relationship’s happiness. But true love is the willingness to work through arguments. You don’t think about breaking up or moving on. Your desire is focused on making things better and working through the anger, hurt, or annoyance that is happening so you can get back to a happy relationship.
You have much in common: interests, thoughts, ideas, otherwise how could you be together all this time? Like this couple, Kaitlyn & Chris, they love just being together: "from hiking in the woods to laying on the beach, any time together is a great time." It's so cool when you find a soulmate and this person wants to share with you all these trips, moments, and discoveries.
For each girl, this moment is very important and very desired. The moment when your beloved will propose to you. I have seen quite a lot of such unusual, beautiful, and sometimes magical moments in my life. Such as arranging a flash mob in a shopping center with a performance and at the end, appearing from nowhere with a ring, or climbing to the top of Machu Picchu to stand on one knee and propose.
For this beautiful couple, everything happened very unexpectedly, romantically, and with meaning. “He proposed to me on the day we bought our first house on the front doorstep before we walked in.”- Kaitlyn. I think this is the most symbolic moment - to enter the new house already as a bride and groom, to start a new page in your life and in a new place.
And here is the result of their fabulous day, which they decided to celebrate in Punta Cana, Dominican Republic, in one of the gorgeous places, Melia Caribe Tropical resort.